Happy 40 th Birthday to me!
This year we are going a little Meta and Woo. Did you know
that in Various scripts and in astrology the turning of 40 has a lot of
significance? Some spiritual teachers call it the ‘Portal’, I want to call it
the Transformation arc. Why do I call it a transformation arc rather than an ‘upgrade’
or ‘upleveling’ ? It is not about one half of your life being better than the
other half, it is about The journey that the protagonist takes in his lifetime.
So imagine any Movie, book or story telling – we begin with the protagonist
being a workaholic and by the end he is carefree and chooses living over work (Hrithik
in Zindagi na milegi dobara). If the character starts of as a carefree person,
then by the end of the story he is a man driven by his mission and purpose (
Hrithik in Lakshya) . That is what is a transformation arc. Every good story
has a character arc- think Sholay, Titanic, harry Potter, lord of the rings. The
Hero’s or Heroine’s journey.
Infact there is a verse in the Quran 46:15 that specifically
mentions the age forty! It is believed that it was at the age of forty that
prophet Muhammad received his first revelation ( after many years of deep
reflection). The verse talks about being grateful, righteous and repentant at
all ages, but especially as one reaches ‘forty’.
So how do you tap into the magic of turning forty? How do you
enter the portal? How do we find this transformational story arc? And how
valuable would it be for you, if you already know what is going to be the story
arc of your life? The simplest hack is finding your South Node and your North
Node on your astrology chart. The South node is all of your life before 40 or
approximately around that time, and the North node is all of your life after 40
or approximately around those years.
Sometimes life feels random. It feels pointless. And you are
trying to figure out, why did this happen to me- and at these moments to think “
aah this is my story arc.” Knowing your south node and north node is like
knowing the beginning and ending of a story. Now, that is not to say that life
is not going to take you on the most epic journey of your life ! but it helps. It
is like Frodo gets ring, Frodo takes ring back to Mount doom.But the people he
meets along the way, the experiences he has shape him. Some will be like Souron
in our life, some like Gollum and others like Sam – they all have an important
part to play in our Epic tale, but the over arching theme across the 3 movies
is the same – the transformational arc of Frodo. So, for example, I am a South
node Scorpio and a North Node Taurus. So that means in the first half of my
life I have the natural abilities and characteristics of a Scorpio, and my life’s
journey is to travel to the astrological opposite pole that is Taurus.
The South Node in Scorpio to North Node in Taurus journey
represents a deep transformation from intensity and emotional turmoil towards
stability, security, and groundedness. Here's a breakdown of the character arc
from South Node in Scorpio to North Node in Taurus in terms of astrology
characteristics:
Beginning of the Arc (South Node in Scorpio):
- Emotional Depth & Intensity: Scorpio is deeply
emotional, intense, and prone to experiencing extremes. The person may have a
tendency to dwell in deep emotional waters, often feeling a pull towards
crisis, transformation, and regeneration.face loss, emotional upheaval, or
crises, leading to a desire for emotional self-protection or fear of betrayal
and abandonment.
The Turning Point (Transition Phase):
- Learning to Let Go of Control: As the character progresses
towards the North Node in Taurus, they start to release the need to control
everything. They begin to understand that not everything can (or should) be
manipulated, and trust in the natural unfolding of life becomes important.
End of the Arc (North Node in Taurus):
- Building & Cultivating: Taurus is an earth sign that
enjoys building and cultivating—whether it’s a home, career, or relationships.
The person learns the value of persistence and patience, creating a life based
on solid foundations.
Key Themes of the Character Arc of my life would be:
1. From Crisis to Calm
2. From Manipulation to Trust
3. From Emotional Depth to Physical Grounding
4. From Transformation to Preservation
And if you are interested – let me show you how to find your
own transformation character arc.
What is Fascinating is – that this entire
transformation arc was created by Chat GPT for me. A personalised life journey.
Within a click of a button, in under 30 seconds. Infact I have just shared the
abridged version, it is even more detailed.
I hope your mind is blown by the Blending of Avante Garde
Knowledge of Astrology, Spirituality and the Tech Savviness of artificial intelligence.
I was blown away too. Welcome to Kuheli 2.0
Now, here is how you get to create it for yourself. I want
to be able to gift this sense of empowerment, wonder and Magical possibility to
all of you on my birthday.
Step 1. Go to astro-charts.com/tools/new/birth-chart . or
any website that finds your astrology chart for free.
Fill in your birth time and date. Press play. You will get
your north node and south node . the north node is the Upright Horse shoe
(looks like n)and south node is a downward horse shoe (looks like a u)
.
Step 2: Now that you know your South node which is related
to your natural tendency and is based on so many things like your past life Karmas
and Samskaras. And the North Node is basically the reason for your life, the lesson
you were sent on Earth to learn, your Dharma atleast for this lifetime.
Now you go to Chatgpt and type this prompt – Create a
character arc based on astrological characteristics for a south node ( enter
your south node) to a north node ( enter your north node) .
.
And see the magic of AI unfold. That’s it.
Now, I am sure a lot of you are turning your noses up at – Ye
kya timepass hai ! You are a doctor, how can you believe in this kind of weird non-science.
But, if I tell you, you could find your kids character arc, and it could
possibly help you be a better parent, or you could find you parents arc and
understand them better, or your partners. Now, all of a sudden you are
invested. You want the best for your child, you definitely want to be able to
give them that slight advantage in life – and so you would do it, out of
curiosity. My son is a South node Aries to a north node Libra by the way, and
it is mind blowing how accurate it is.
So ya, this is me as I enter my 40’s a crazy blend of
Science and Spirituality, powered by AI. This past year has been a brilliant year of
creating legacy for myself- I wrote my spiritual self help book Shiva Shakti which
is a part of my soul, the most precious piece of heart ( available on Amazon),
I won a Beauty Pageant Mrs Medico Diva, and over the past weekend I held my
second women’s only retreat in Goa. I loved writing my emails for my email list,
I loved teaching and coaching inside Expansion Experience and my 1:1 coaching,
and yes I continue being a surgeon bringing transformational squint cor4rection
to my patients.whether through my squint surgeries, or my life coaching the
theme in both is – how can I bring transformation to people. My travel and food
blogger avatar has started to wane, and my Life coaching avatar is waxing. I do
believe that is part of the transformation arc.
If this post makes you feel like – damn I want to be able to
transform my life with these crazy amazing blend of science meets spirituality,
my Coaching program Expansion Experience could be the answer. It is the most
brilliant course curriculum which teaches quantum physics with Feminine
embodiment practices, neurosomatics, mindset work, karmic healing, and so much
more.
Other than that- I have not even scratched the surface of
the deep excavation work that I am doing as I traverse through my
transformation Arc. This year is going to be about shifting gears, sufficiency
and a recalibration as I enter a new decade in my life. I am excited to take
you on this journey with me.
Until next year – Happy 40 th to me.
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